What are your Motives?

 I have been thinking about action vs. reaction a lot here lately. At any point in time, in any situation, you have a choice. Whether that be in your action or reaction. Every step of any situation you find yourself in, you have a choice..and though we all think most of the time that we are right in our choices..after some time to think it over or we finally look up to see just how big of a ditch we have dug. But even at that time we still have a choice in how we conduct ourselves..there is never a time that is to late to change your actions. 

 What the real question is, is what is your motives behind actions or reactions? Is it love or lust? If it's not one..then it's the other. The difference was said in a great way to me..love is the mindset " what can I do for you" to build someone up to be that person to bring greatness out of someone..or lust is the mindset "what can I get out of this ?" To constantly take, take and use others to build yourself up. This is in marriage...dating...family...friendship..and even to strangers. 

What are your motives? Love..or lust?? If you can readjust your motives..your actions/reactions will follow suit. Are u the friend,family,or other half that bring down others and pull and take from them..or do you build up those around  you to inspire greatness?? Everyone complains about the world today and how selfish and heartless it is..well wake up people..those actions and reactions..they start at home! There is some food for thought :)

Love,
Cat